“Establishing strong Biblical boundaries is one of the hardest, yet most important
things for a betrayed wife to do. Really, it’s one of the hardest, yet most important
thing for any Believer to do. Unfortunately, it’s a task that leaves most of us
wondering where and how to even start. Many of us have spent our lives believing
unconditional love looks different than the Bible actually describes it. We
mistakenly think setting boundaries is mean, or unloving, or gasp, un-submissive.”

Excerpt from the “Biblical Boundaries Workbook” by Esther Hosea. ❤

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BIBLICAL BOUDARIES BOOK REVIEW AND GIVEAWAY

I would love to introduce you to my beautiful friend, Cherith Peters, the founder of “His Dearly Loved Daughter” Ministries.

Cherith began writing on her Blog in 2017 under her pen name, Esther Hosea, shortly after the painful discovery of her husband’s intimate betrayal.

She has dedicated the past few years of her life to joining God in His work of pushing back the darkness where marriage and sexual purity are concerned.

If you were to sit down and have a heart to heart with Cherith, she would tell you her greatest motivator to begin this ministry was not the ministry itself.

For her, it was all about being obedient to God. In fact, she would never in a million years have chosen this as her ministry.

A MINISTRY BIRTHED IN PAIN

Despite devastating pain, Cherith bravely cooperated with the Lord to establish healthy boundaries in her marriage.

When she surrendered her brokenness to God, she untied His hands to begin doing a brand new thing in her life. Therefore, a true “Beauty from Ashes” story began to transpire as only He can write it.

God is using Cherith’s obedience to bring healing into the lives of thousands of people who have experienced the trauma of betrayal in their marriages. As she co-labors with God, she is witnessing Him move mountains in her own life.

My dear friend is experiencing God’s sweet redemption rising up from out of her greatest sorrows. His healing joy is beginning to take root within her heart as she watches Him restore the brokenness in other people’s lives as only He knows how.

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For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun!
Do you not see it? I will make a pathway through the wilderness.
I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.
Isaiah 43:19 NLT

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MY OWN BROKEN DOWN WALLS

There have been people I loved who were severely toxic, as I’m sure you have had the same thing in your life, too.

I let them remain on my side of the fence for years, despite their destructive behavior, in hopes they would one day see the light.

My inability to rise up and know my self worth kept me from realizing healthy boundaries were necessary to move forward in life. I was so desperate for certain people to love me that I became fearful of disappointing them even more than they already were.

Whether we realize it or not, we really do train people in how they can treat us, don’t we? With that in mind, we can cooperate with God to establish solid boundaries that will discourage unhealthy relationships in our lives. 

Although we cannot control other people and their actions, we can make the decision to take back the responsibility for our own life and place it in God’s hands. 

THE “BIBLICAL BOUNDARIES” WORKBOOK

This is a well written book. Beautifully saturated in Scripture with every turn of the page, with room to write your thoughts for self reflection. Cherith drops alot of additional Scripture Verse addresses for the reader to go deeper on their own.

You will be introduced to ten principles of healthy boundaries found in God’s Word. Furthermore, you will find practical tips to begin establishing them.

The Lord convicted me left and right on almost every single page!

One of many quotes that stood out to me:

“Biblical boundaries will draw out the true heart of others, ultimately expediting a resolution – one way or the other.”

I am beginning to understand the meaning of unconditional love and I am learning to allow people to take responsibility for their own behavior, feelings and frustrations. This is where I can begin to ‘see’ their true hearts be revealed, one way or the other.

Reading this book helped me to realize I am literally standing in God’s way when I choose not to build healthy borders around myself. 

WE HAVE EXTREME WORTH IN HIS EYES

God created us to be in relationship with Him as His dearly beloved daughters.

We have incredible worth in His eyes. In fact, my Heavenly Daddy has whispered so many times into my soul: “You are mine, Donna. I have called you by name.” 

I’m beginning to get a deeper revelation of how much Jesus loves me as the years go by. But still, I don’t think I will ever be able to fully grasp the depth of His extravagant love. 

As Born Again Believers, we belong to Almighty GOD. 

We are not public property, to be pillaged by angry, unrepentant people like a city with all its walls down. How people choose to behave is their choice. But when they choose to sin against us, then they have made the decision to remove themselves from our lives.

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BOOK GIVEAWAY

This book will guide you to really think about where you may have fallen short in establishing healthy borders in your own life thus enabling you to begin the rebuilding process!

I would like to take this opportunity to gift this book to someone.

Comment below with where you are in your journey to establishing healthy borders in your life and you will be entered into our drawing.

One random reader will be selected on February 7th 2019 and they will receive a copy of this book. We will send an email to notify the winner.

NOTE: Winner must reside in the United States. We will arrange for a copy of this book to be delivered directly to the winner from Amazon.

 

Blessings to you, 

P.S. Connect with Esther Hosea on Social Media 

Blog ::: hisdearlyloveddaughter.com

Instagram ::: hisdearlyloveddaughter

Twitter ::: @hisdldaughter

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O LORD, if You heal me, I will be truly healed;
if You save me, I will be truly saved.
My praises are for You alone!
Jeremiah 17:14 NLT

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Esther Hosea’s Bio:

Cherith Peters is crazy in love with her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

Her identity was rooted for so long in her role as wife (almost 19 years) and mom to three amazing teens. Then she discovered in late 2016 that her husband had a serious sexual addiction and was repeatedly unfaithful throughout their marriage.

This nearly ruined her but God showed up big in the middle of that dark time and pursued her with reckless abandon.

The Lord revealed to Cherith time and again that no matter what happened, her identity was in Him.

She is defined only by Him, and she is His dearly loved Daughter. God’s amazing redemptive power has become so evident in the past two years.

No matter how broken we are, God can make us new! He is remaking Cherith into His whole and healthy Daughter and her husband into a man after His own heart.

He’s remaking their marriage into a beautiful, grace-filled testimony of His wonderful love! But above all, He’s building a ministry to reach thousands of men and women who need to experience His healing power in the same way.

If you’ve suffered the trauma of intimate betrayal, I encourage you to hop over to Cherith’s website, https://hisdearlyloveddaughter.com to find encouragement and support.

Please know, you don’t have to do this alone!

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